Perimenopause, Menopause, and Postmenopause: What Changes and What You Can Do About It

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In many spaces, “menopause” is used as a catch-all term to describe the life-altering, hormonally-confusing, hot-flash-expecting stage of our lives as women. In reality though, there are distinct hormonal stages around the event of menopause, each with their own patterns, symptoms, and tissue changes. 

For many women, vaginal dryness, irritation, or discomfort with sex begin years before their final period. Understanding the difference between perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause can help explain why your body may feel different and why the type of support you need may change over time.

 

Perimenopause

 

 

Perimenopause is the hormonal transition leading up to menopause. It’s hard to say how long this stage lasts, as it varies for many women, but typically it’s around 4-10 years. Estrogen starts to fluctuate unpredictably, ovulation becomes inconsistent, and progesterone drops, creating an experience that can be frustrating and uncomfortable.

When it comes to vaginal health, it’s common to begin experiencing on and off vaginal dryness and discomfort during penetration as the vaginal tissue begins to thin, natural lubrication becomes inconsistent, and friction sensitivity increases. 

→ How Pelva can help: HydroSlix™ Vaginal Liners are a great solution for women in this phase of life. The liner offers padding and protection from friction for sensitive tissues and provides a slick layer to simulate arousal when things are feeling a little dry. As a one-time-use product, you can reach for HydroSlix™ only when you need it for a little extra support.

 

Menopause

 

 

Oh, the M-word – the clinical milestone where a woman officially goes one full year without a period. Internally, ovarian estrogen production drops significantly and the fluctuating hormone levels of the last few years stabilize at a lower baseline. 

Vaginally, many changes can occur once menopause is reached. GSM (Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause), caused by low estrogen levels, is a common condition that affects over 60% of women. Vaginal dryness may persist outside of intercourse, becoming a daily occurrence, pain with penetration may increase, vaginal tissues may become thinner and less elastic, and a decreased libido often shows up.

Fun fact: did you know menopause is actually a single day? It is the day that marks exactly 12 consecutive months since a woman's last menstrual period. However, the signs and symptoms from hormonal shifts can last much longer. 

→ How Pelva can help: HydroSlix™ Vaginal Liners can become an essential part of your routine when you hit menopause. Developed to create a soft, physical barrier against friction, HydroSlix™ cushions sensitive tissues, adds hydration and support alongside favorite lubricants, and can help make penetration feel more comfortable. It can work alongside (but not replace) other menopausal relief solutions, like HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) and vaginal estrogen, giving you plenty of options to explore what works best for you.

 

Postmenopause

 

 

Using the word “phase” to describe postmenopause feels odd, because it’s really the rest of your life after the event of menopause. We never exit it; it just becomes a part of where we are in life. 

The body will adjust to this new reality, as estrogen remains low and vaginal tissue changes persist, becoming chronic if not treated. Maybe the pain of intercourse turns you off of it completely, or vaginal discomfort is just a part of your every day. Thankfully, many of these symptoms are treatable and manageable.

→ How Pelva can help: HydroSlix™ Vaginal Liners can become an essential tool in your vaginal health toolbox. The design of the liner helps to protect thinning tissue from friction and supports comfortable penetration from whatever method you prefer. It can become a part of your vaginal care routine, with pelvic PT, hormones, dilators, and moisturizers, all working to make you feel comfortable, safe, and strong.

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Navigating these changes in vaginal comfort can feel lonely, but we promise, you’re not alone. If you have any questions about HydroSlix™ and if it might be a good fit for you, feel free to text us at (612) 293-5501.


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